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Depression has always been rather fond of the ladies

July 5th 2006 14:36
I’ve done a little further research as to why more women have depression than men. Body image seems to play a large part, due to the pressure the media subjects women to. I’m not a size 10, bright blonde, 5’8 woman – and I feel less for it. The stereotypical image that I should be one causes me to feel bad about myself, and that I am not good enough (beauty wise) for today’s world. I know I am not the only woman to think this, christ, even beautiful women think they are too fat or too ugly. Why is it today that women can’t see themselves for what they really are? Why is it that we always value our bad qualities before our better ones?


I will be blunt, and say that the pressure put on women to look like supermodels is causing depression. The rates of sadness will not lift until the media starts putting real women into their magazines. Ones who have pimples and who are above a size 14! I wonder how long it will be before a parent tries to sue a magazine for their daughter’s suicide.

Due to their ability to bear children, women are again more susceptible to depression, especially post natal depression. Hormones, menstrual cycles and menopause can all be triggers for depression.

For women who work and have a family, the stress can get too much… leading to depression. Many women often try to look after everyone before themselves, thus leaving themselves open to mental and physical illness.

I have used this this website to aid my search.

In summing up, I would like to plea to anyone in the media to take notice of this. By 2020 WHO has been predicted that depression will the worlds major health problem. This is big news guys, 2020 is only 14 years away. Major changes must occur in order to avoid this, starting one magazine at a time. Isn’t it time we saw some normal people on the catwalk or clothes designers making clothes for women with real bodies?


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Comment by bkr

July 6th 2006 10:15
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" is a famous quote, but for some reason it never seems to be enough for some people.

Depression is partly caused by media pressure on people having the 'body beautiful', but not totally. Why is there media pressure on this 'body beautiful'? For some reason people seem to think that thinner is better, and you have to be a stick to look beautiful. My example is Kiera Knightly, she was beautiful a couple of years ago, great body and curves, but now she has been in the media spotlight for a while there seems to be undue pressure on her, and she, like many young women, seem to fall victim to anorexia. As a result Kiera is now skinny as a stick, no curves, and looks like a 10 year old ethopian orphan who just needs food. Anorexia can stem from feelings of unattractiveness, which can be caused by pressure from media sources, whether you're in the media spotlight or just read the media, which seems to be why many young models and actresses seem to look like they suffer from this disease.

I think there is a movement away from the typical supermodel though. There have been underwear companies who have used 'real women' (whatever that is) in their advertisements, including a famous campaign last year with size 16 women in their underwear. For the brand, this links their brand with real/normal women, not sticks as many brands do. They can feel more comfortable. This is something to be encouraged, and I believe Bonds have already picked up the ball and started using real women in their advertisements.

While this is to be encouraged, different strokes make the world turn round. Theres nothing wrong with some media/modelling/ads with skinny media darlings, but it would be good to get a balance. Get some black/white/green/blue/yellow people all different sizes in the media, there should be nothing wrong with that.

Your points on neo and post natal depression, family life, etc are all valid, and can all have an impact on a persons mental health for both sexes (men can have post natal depression too), but I don't think that the media's coverage of skinny models is the main cause, particularly when the celebrity magazines are so ready to jump on any beautiful celeb who ends up losing/gaining any weight. They do really dig into people who are too skinny, etc.

I think at the end of the day people need to be comfortable in their own skin. This doesn't necessarily mean they have to be 20kg sticks, but if they feel fit and healthy, thats a good start. Always helps to be told by people though. Reinforces their views and helps reduce their negative feelings toward their own body.

I said I'd make a comment!

Sources:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anorexia_nervosa
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-natal_depression

Comment by Legally Brunette

July 7th 2006 07:10
I'm a firm believer in simply working with what you've got. And to tell you the truth, I know that I am alot happier than a lot of my friends who keep trying to fit this mould of the 'beautiful woman' portrayed by magazines and movies. As a result, I also think that I have been able to lead a more productive life, not obsessing over my own image. Sure there are things about me I'd change, but I've only got one life on this earth, why waste it obsessing over the way I look, when I can obsess over other more exciting things that will fulfill me as a person and the people that I love? Like holidays on the beach and chocolate?

It's all about perspective, I think.

Comment by Anonymous

October 18th 2006 04:37
mandy is crap

Comment by beauty comes in different shapes and sizes

October 18th 2006 04:38
i believe that woman are all beautiful no matter what shape or size they are. The media's perfect body image is an illusion that only a scupture made of stone can contain forever. Woman are meant to grow old and gain weight as they mature, it's part of the natural beauty we have.The whole body image thing is just to create money really. Buy this product and you will look 20 yrs younger. But hello? will it make you happy and will it fulfill you, maybe yes, but that's only until it runs out and you have to buy it again. Beauty doesn't last forever, and if it did it totally defies the natural intention of nature. The media's so called perfections are seriously flawed and fake, so woman who look up to and try to contain this unreal body suffer from depression or anorexia. i believe that the future generations are the ones falling victim to this whole body image now more than ever. Girls as young as six years old are body conscious, when all they should be concerned about is making friends or learning their time tables. Another thing is that mothers who are being influenced by this 'perfect body image' aren't helping their daughters by telling them to lose weight and be thin. It's a really big blow to the self esteem of the child. Parents should encourage their child to be active and healthy instead. Not just to be thin so they can fit into size 6 clothing; especially the girls. So I'll like just like to say to those parents out there make your child feel beautiful for who they are no matter size or shape because when they feel beautiful inside it shows on the outside and that's really what true beauty is.

Comment by Anonymous

October 19th 2006 00:16
carly is a fresh pile of rotten orange toes with sour milk and maggot cookies!!!

Comment by P James Herington

December 26th 2006 17:41
This is a very touchy subject for a lot of people. This is very near and dear to my heart because I suffer the ill effects of this disease, and I am male. Depression is equal opportunity, it effects all persons regardless of race, financial status, religion, etc. Have a safe and happy new Year

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